Ahh... my blog... a place to vent. I can't say these things to my husband since he feels caught in the middle. I can't say too much to my parents either. But Augh... my good friends are the only people who really read my blog, so I shall put it here.
My mother in law is driving me nuts. We have to move. There isn't any way around it unless I get a fabulous paying job next week. We HAVE to move. We are only moving 2 hours away. To my childhood home. The same distance that my family currently lives away form us. My MIL acts like it is 20 hours away. AUGH. I could vent more.. she's just driving me nuts. Tells me how much it's breaking her heart that T is moving away. She is going to do everything in her power to make sure he doesn't move. Calling me about jobs that I'm not qualified for and then wonders why I don't apply for them. Today's job was a position with a local car plant and driving around the vehicles. She doesn't understand why I just won't send T to her house all day while we do other things... her examples in the past have been that Bran and I can nap, go see a movie, have sex or so we could pack. She's thinks by telling us to pack it will be using reverse psychology so then we won't have to move. I have also explained that since we are extended breast feeding and not planning on stopping for another year, this doesn't help me. A few hours would be okay.. all day and I'm going to have to pump several times. Frustrating, frustrating, frustrating. She isn't aware of the fact that I know that she told Bran a few weeks ago that she doesn't care if it would be an inconvenience for me. Honestly, it makes me want to be spiteful and say well I don't care if you want to see T or not. No one outside of my home has to agree with our parenting decisions.. but I don't want our family members to attempt to ambush us either.
As we get closer and closer to moving at the end of this month I am sure it's only going to get worse. Honestly, she is making me glad to move and is seriously pushing me to move faster. I don't want to move for Tristan's sake and don't want either of us to be separated from Bran for any length of time..but really we are out of options.
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I'm sorry...that sounds beyond frustrating. It really is only two hours, and as you have said before, it's the same distance your parents have to drive to see you. Although I understand why she wouldn't want you guys or T to move, she has to understand the situation (apparently not though). My prediction for you when the move is finished is weekend guests.
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